dominant

In a consensual BDSM (Bondage, Dominance and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism) relationship, the dominant (often abbreviated as 'dom') is an assertive, confident, and often sexually experienced individual who exerts control over their submissive partner(s). The dominant's actions are always consensual and can include physical, sexual, emotional, or social power play. The dynamic between the dominant and submissive partners in a BDSM relationship is fluid, negotiable, and can vary from situation to situation based on mutually agreed upon boundaries. It is important to note that while some people may associate the term 'dominant' with gender stereotypes, this is not always accurate; individuals of any gender identity can assume either the dominant or submissive role in a BDSM relationship.